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-24 June 2010 At 3:39 AM
Self reflectionBeen thinking ever since, i heard it. "i felt DARK and unknown" this wordsreally crave in my heart. we all maybenew in this team. but i guess we allstarting to get a hang of every1's true colours and pros and cons.what u say, is really true. every 1was celebrating his leave, and was happysome 1 else came in the team. i seriouslywas happy that u make it in to the team.but did we ever spare a tot on the 1 thatleave us? did he really deserve what wecelebrating now? did we really ask his unhappiness? did we treat him as a fairindividual? he may did not do much for hispart. but that doesn't mean we could treathim in a unfairness way. think abt it.if u are reading this and happen to thinkif u are part of it. THINK abt it. did utreat him like u treat others? As the person telling me abt this. her eyewas full of tear. and its not that she didsomething wrong? she did her part. but didwe? with this it link to many other doorssome open and some shut tight. that y shefeel its dark. cos not many door are open.(like i say if u know what i mean gd, if u dun. better if u dun. but i believe u shouldknow, correct me if i miss understand yourmeaning)team? define it. its we work together covereach others cons and grow together. its nothere 1 small group there 1 small group. somewander in de air. some did not appear. i maybepart of all of that,that y i dun feel that dark. but after what u say. i try putting me in your shoe.i can feel the same as u did. we here reallyfeel cold. (and its not abt the temperature.)knowing all this, i can't blame others. i couldjust blame myself, y didn't i do something before u feel that? (i been stuck here thinkingof what to continue for 30mins-_-) or maybe its just a small matter where i think to much? i was nv once a thinker. but today your thissharing really make me think for afew moment.i stop walking and stand to see what is happenaround me. some pple just have their attitude, and theirway of toking, which might not be pleasant toevery1. but pls do think. u are in a team. uare a team player. u cannot do thing what u like.and think u are always right. thought some timeu are right. perhaps just put yourself inothers shoe. and think if the person listento what u just say. how will he/she feel?pissed? angry? tsk tsk? but definitely not happy.been verging my tot on blog. which its not mynormal self. i think i been thinking to much.maybe everything is just fine. i hope!!k i am tired, and should get some slp now.dAn
*at times we should stop and look around whats happening in your surrounding.
